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I stopped seeing him because it was two dates and he asked for half the check even though we shared food.  He didn\u2019t even order his own meal.  At the time my life was in bitter turmoil because I was out of work with no end in sight.  My mom and friends encouraged me to talk to him and give him another chance but I refused.  I had feelings for another dude and when that went nowhere, I fell into something with a a 3rd guy.  I eventually started working out of town.  Anyway, the two dates guy kept in contact with me and tried to get me to go with him for while.  I would hear from him at least once a year, around the holidays.  2 years ago, he sent me an album of his sister\u2019s wedding and invited me to go to his friend\u2019s wedding in Mexico.  I just got back into town and was thinking about my new job and of course some other guy.  The other guy didn\u2019t work out and fell into something else with someone at work, which also didn\u2019t work out either.  So here we are 5 years later.  Two dates guy contacted me over the holidays and we had a text convo.  He suggested we hang out in February.  I\u2019m willing to give him another chance because of his persistence.  All I want out of life right now is to be with someone who generally cares about me, will be consistent and I can rely on.  I thought maybe it\u2019s him.  I wanted to go out to see what he was about and if either of us had changed enough to forge ahead together. So I agreed to go out with him in February.  He did refer to it as \u2018hanging out.\u2019  Well it\u2019s February and I hadn\u2019t heard from him.  A friend of mine had prodded me to get in contact with him.  I thought about it for a while.  I reasoned that he kept up with me for 5 years while I\u2019ve continually blown him off.  I felt I should show some interest.  So I decided to text him and did so I yesterday.  I talked of the weather and asked how his year was going.  He text me back good, hope it stops snowing and ttyl.  I realize it was a blow off.  My question is why would he even suggest hanging out this month just to blow me off? Probably just his ego, right?  I just wanted an unbiased opinion and them I\u2019m not going to think about this anymore and move on.  Thanks and I appreciate your time and opinion. \/\/\n\n\u0022\u0022\u003Ccenter\u003E\u0022\u0022**Sponsored Ads** | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/United-Kingdom-dating-service.html?page=60 I Want A British Husband]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/United-States-dating-service.html?page=60 American Husband Online]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Spain-dating-service.html?page=60 Find A Husband in Spain]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Canada-dating-service.html?page=60 Find A Spouse in Canada]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Australia-dating-service.html?page=60 Get Australian Husband]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/Germany-dating-service.html?page=60 Best Site To Find A German Husband]]\u0022\u0022\u003C\/center\u003E\u0022\u0022\nI wouldn\u2019t give 2 Dates Guy another thought. First of all, the fact that he would only contact you around the holidays, and always contacted you around the holidays each year, tells me this: He hasn\u2019t been able or interested in maintaining anything long term with anyone else. Red Flag. Either he\u2019s not very good at relationships OR he just doesn\u2019t want anything terribly substantive. So we\u2019ve already established the high likelihood that this guy has issues. I\u2019ve been getting monthly emails from a man on Facebook.  I\u2019ve never met him. He emails me every few weeks saying \u201cWhen am I going to take you for a drink?\u201d The first time it was kind of charming.  However I never responded just because this guy said the two things that will always ensure that I never accept an invitation for a date: \u201cI\u2019ve read your blog\u201d  and \u201cSo\u2026 blow job classes, eh?\u201d The second time he emailed, I ignored him. I received my SIXTH email from him a few weeks ago. Here\u2019s a fun fact, kids: A man can look like Colin Firth and have a sexy accent and still be douche bag. Don\u2019t let the accent fool you. Just because he says words like \u201cbrilliant\u201d and \u201cdarling\u201d doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t chop your hands off and shove them in a freezer in the basement. Or lie. We give men like this a free pass because we think they\u2019re different because they don\u2019t sound like American Men. They\u2019re not different. Don\u2019t be bamboozled by charm. Charm is fleeting and it lacks substance. It\u2019s a great way to distract you from the fact that there\u2019s no \u201cthere\u201d there. Anyhoo\u2026.back to the OP.\n\nThe next red flag, and a super creepy one, is that he invites you to attend a wedding with him. Um..2 dates. Over a year ago. He barely knows you. He\u2019s not looking for a date. he\u2019s looking for a buffer that he can schlep around so Noni and Poppi don\u2019t ask any questions and so people don\u2019t inquire why Cousin Two Date Guy \u201chasn\u2019t met the right girl and settled down yet.\u201d\n\nHe bailed because he has issues. That\u2019s all you need to know. No need to drill it down further and try to determine just what his issues were. Boyfriend has \u2018em. Enough said.\n\nNow..let\u2019s talk about you, shall we?\n\nAll I want out of life right now is to be with someone who generally cares about me, will be consistent and I can rely on.\n\nThat sounds fair. Just one question\u2026.what will you be bringing to the table? You\u2019re examining the behavior of men, analyzing it, judging it. But what about you? You blew off Mr. 2 Dates because he didn\u2019t offer to cover the tab for food you shared on a second date. It\u2019s all about you and what these men to impress and take care of you. What do you have to offer in return?  From the letter, you seem rather scattered and unsettled. You frequently find yourself in dead end situations. So\u2026what about you should make a guy want to get his act together and prove his worth to you?\n\nI\u2019m not saying you don\u2019t have amazing qualities. I\u2019m sure you do. But when you approach these situations with the mentality that it\u2019s all about what the relationship can\/should do for you, and not what it can do for both of you, then it\u2019s no wonder you keep chasing your tail.\n\nI think you\u2019re looking for a relationship to make your life easier. Which is perfectly okay. But you should want a relationship to enhance what you already have. Not improve or complete it. If you\u2019re unsettled, the people you are drawn to or attract will also be unsettled. That\u2019s how it works.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-07-30","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-07-30","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"JustBecauseHeAskedYouOutDoesntMeanHes","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2025-07-30 13:43:49","statut_fiche":"1","date_maj_fiche":"2025-08-23 00:48:42","user":"olpappas","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-07-30\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-07-30\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022JustBecauseHeAskedYouOutDoesntMeanHes\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-07-30 13:43:49\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-08-23 00:48:42\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/asso-sumac.fr\/?JustBecauseHeAskedYouOutDoesntMeanHes"}}